A popular bar in San Francisco's Mission District, known for its craft cocktails, welcoming atmosphere, and as a lesbian-friendly space.
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Last updated: 8/17/2026, 3:02:33 AM
Mother, often referred to as 'Mother in the Mission' and located on 16th Street (which might lead to the name '16 Mothers'), is a popular bar in San Francisco. It's known for its outstanding, flavorful, and balanced cocktails, as well as its warm, welcoming, and laid-back ambiance. The bar features a huge, airy room and a big screen playing movies, contributing to its chill vibe. It is also recognized as a lesbian-friendly establishment.
Customer perception is mixed. Many praise the bar for its exceptional cocktails and inviting atmosphere, describing it as a 'gem' and a 'perfect spot to unwind.' However, a significant number of reviews highlight negative experiences with staff, citing rudeness, unprofessionalism, and discriminatory behavior, particularly from bouncers and bartenders. Some customers reported being turned away or mistreated, especially if they were men or in groups with men, despite the bar's inclusive 'lesbian vibe.' Issues with drink quality (e.g., 'flat beer') and long waits were also mentioned.
The establishment is primarily a bar, not a restaurant. It is known for fostering a 'lesbian vibe' and is considered a significant space for the LGBTQ+ community in San Francisco. An older review mentioned it was 'Cash Only,' but this may have changed.
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Add yoursSpecific peak times are not explicitly mentioned, but its laid-back charm suggests it's suitable for casual evenings and catching up with friends.